Are You Dating the Wrong Man?


Some women are having difficulty in looking for a long term partner. They always end up with the wrong man. Of course, women don’t want to get hurt and live happily ever after.

Do you want to meet your perfect match that will lasts for a long time?

Here are the men you should not date:

  • Mr. Married. Of course, this man will not be with you for a long term. Hello! He’s committed to her wife right? He’ll only hurt you. If you’re really up to long term commitment, you wouldn’t want to have a secret relationship with anyone.
  • Mr. Perfect. This man will really not work with you. You’ll just waste your time giving the best to him and still you will be appreciated. He’ll just lessen your self-esteem. You should find someone who will appreciate the things you do. Say goodbye to Mr. Perfect!
  • Mr. Loser. This man has all the downs in the world – no car, no job, no prospects and no money. You’ll be the one who will support him, financially and everything. You don’t need a guy who you’ll feed with everything. He’ll just get everything from you – you, money, sex, everything!
  • Mr. Not Attracted to You. Why would you waste your time on someone who doesn’t even like you or interested in you? Women want their men to be romantic. How could that be possible if the man you’re with could not even show attraction to you? Stop the chaste with this man girl! He’s not worth it.
  • Mr. Damaged. This man is a victim of heartache and still couldn’t move on. Don’t think of helping him recover in the past. Don’t get involved with a man who has past love issues. You might end up hurt and hoping with him. You could meet after the healing is done.
  • Mr. Indecisive. This man always prefers doing other things than spending it with you. He has many plans with himself and they don’t include you. It’s like you’re not in the picture at all! He’s not contented with what’s happening and asking for more. Dump this man before he finds someone better than you.
  • Mr. Excess Baggage. This man is either divorced, with multiple ex-partners or with children. You wouldn’t want to get involve with his children and take care of them all. He has many responsibilities financially and you might end up spending money for his children too.
  • Mr. Sportsman. This man is really obsessed with sports. He’ll find more time on his sports than with you unless you want to him too. He prefers to watch a sports channel than to go out with you. Don’t think that you can win over his sports because he’ll leave anything for sports…and that’s including you.

accidental touching indication of sexual attraction when one “accidentally” bridges a physical gap by gently brushing up against another person, clutches his or her arm to make a point, flicks a speck of dust from his or her shoulder, or touches his or her shoe with one’s own shoe under a table

The Dictionary of Love, by John Stark

Rules in Dating

For most men, dating women is not that easy especially if you’re not into that thing. One time or another, you’ll meet someone who you’ll invite for a date, only to find out you don’t know what to do in the end. A date can be a good start to get to know each other. Here are the rules you should follow to win the heart of your perfect match and have an amazing date:


  • Always be on time on dates.
  • Wear something appropriate and comfortable clothes during dates.
  • Make sure that you’re both enjoying each other’s company. Getting too serious will just make each other bored.
  • Say nice things on the way she looks, even the things she wear.
  • Make her feel that you’re interested in her, that you want to get to know her. Talk about interesting things.
  • If you’re not interested to date her again, let her know in a nice way.
  • Invite someone you like or attracted to on a date. No need to ask for your friends’ approval.
  • Be optimistic if your previous dates don’t end well.
  • Always make plans when dating and choose interesting places you would like to bring your date.
  • Consult your friends who are also dating. They can help you when it comes to dating and romance matters.


  • Don’t call your date many times, just wait for her reply. She might get irritated and turned off her phone on you.
  • Don’t date women who are not interested in you. It’s just a waste of time and you’ll just be dumped in the end.
  • Don’t be late on a date no matter what happen. Being late is a huge turn off for women.
  • Don’t talk and act with pretensions. Dating is not about lying.
  • Don’t talk too much about yourself. Women love mysteries.
  • Don’t think about anyone else while having your date. You should concentrate solely with the person you are with.
  • Don’t ever treat your date insolently. Manners are important with women.
  • Don’t drink too much alcohol while on a date.
  • Don’t forget to ensure your safety when dating. Let someone know where you are going to be safe.
  • Don’t engage with sex on a first date or you might ruin everything.
  • If you’re single, don’t date a married person.

Abelard and Heloise – Middle Age’s Famous Lovers

Abelard and Heloise are the Middle Ages’ most famous star-crossed lovers and letter writers. Abelard, a tutor of theology at Paris’ Notre Dame Cathedral, fell in love with his pupil Heloise. She is the niece of the hot-tempered Canon Fulbert. She bore Abelard’s child name Astrolabe who is named after an astronomical instrument for measuring time. Abelard and Heloise were secretly married.

Fulbert got angry with Abelard for soiling the family’s honor by naming his nephew  after an astronomical instrument and had Abelard castrated by his henchmen. Abelard became a monk and Heloise a nun. Despite separate cloisters, they maintained a passionate epistolary relationship and are entombed together in Paris’ Pere Lachaise Cemetery. A sculpture if Heloise embracing Abelard’s severed gonads can be found at Paris’ Conciergerie prison.

Types of Love

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Love is a mixture of different emotions, states and attitudes.  It should be expressed and given away. It can be classified to the following types: Agape – unconditional, spiritual, selfless; Courtly Love – romantic, idealized, ennobling Erotic – full of sexual desire, passionate Familial – sharing a commom ancestry, selfless, emotionally filling, reciprocal  Free Love – not married… Read more.